Date Rape
Date Rape Is:
A form of sexual attack. It is unwanted, forced sexual contact, including penetration of the vagina by the penis or an object, or penetration of the mouth of anus.
Date Rape is never a form of making love or a type of seduction because of two important elements:
- The lack of consent
- The use of force
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What is Consent?
Consent is freely and voluntarily agreeing to something you choose. Giving in because of fear, is not consent.
What is Force?
Force is the aggresive use of power to make a person do something they don't want to do, by terrorizing or overwhelming them. A victim may be forced by deceit, threats, restraint, verbal coercion or physical violence.
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It is hard to think of someone familiar on a date, a stady boyfriend or a casual acquaintance as a rapist. Being forced into having sex, even if it is with someone you know - is still rape and it is a crime. Nothing you do, say,or wear gives anyone the right to assault youu sexually or otherwise. |
How Can You Avoid Date Rape?
- Be very strong and clear in setting limits.
- Trust yoru intuition and avoid situations that make you uncomfortable.
- Avoid drugs or alcohol, which could cloud your judgement or make you defenseless.
- Recognize that someone who is charming may not always be safe.
- Check out blind dates or first dates with friends or others. Go to public places or in groups, not alone.
- Always be aware of your surroundings and options.
- Always be aware of your surroundings and options.
You are at Greater Risk if:
- You are female between 15-25 years.
- You are a runaway, out of your home, or living on the streets.
- You use drugs or alcohol while with others.
- You do not set and communicate clear limits.
Your immediate concern after an assult should be:
- Get to a Safe Place.
- Report incident to police or security personnel.
- Do not bathe, douche or change clothing; everything is evidence that can be saved in case you decide to prosecute the crime.
- Seek medical attention for possible injury, infections, or pregnancy.
(80% of rape victims get a sexually transmitted disease from an assailant).
- Call a relative, friend, or a trusted person, or use the resources below.
- Bannock House (Safe Place) 24 Hour Crisis Center 234-2244
- Police 911
- Bannock County Sheriff Detectives 236-2800
- Health and Welfare 24-Hour Line 235-2800
- YWCA Rape Crisis Line 251-HELP
- Pocatello Regional Medical Center
- Bannock Regional Medical Center
- ISU Campus Security 236-2515
- School Counselors, Teachers, Resource Officers, Clergy, Parents
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